I have another reason... every time I try and start a post, I've found that all I want to do is complain. Really, REALLY complain. I want to complain about my husband (because obviously 23 is really 13 in man years...), about the crushing pain and exhaustion that's trying to take over my life, at the fact that my child refuses to potty train... AAAAGH!
In short, I've been letting the little annoyances get me down, waaaaaaaay down. Which is so, so wrong. I girl can only bitch so much (actually I can bitch a LOT, but I'm not going to go there...)
So, this week I'm trying to focus on the positive stuff (and I really, REALLY need ya'lls help on this one). I've got a handsome, hardworking husband, a beautiful daughter, a gorgeous house, good friends, I can cook like a motherfucker.... and I'm totally out of ideas. Throw me a couple bones people.
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In all honesty, it does you a LOT of good to get out of these funks by actually saying all the good stuff - OUT LOUD. As corny as that sounds....tell Hubs he's hot, tell the kid you love her because she's brainy, etc...and do it repeatedly. I think, after awhile, it all just settles in that we don't have it so bad and it reminds us of all the good stuff. :) I have to do this some days, and once I force myself to say things I don't WANT to...but really do mean...it eases the tension in my head.
I think she's right. Also, write them down...you can even dedicate a post to hubby & your beautiful little girl.
I've also had some blues lately...going back to school sucks!
Whenver I am in a funk, I go and do something for myself...even if it is just stopping at my favorite food place, or getting a manicure (which hasn't happened in years!). Find something to bring you joy about yourself, so you can spread it to other. Ohh, I know, get a new tattoo ;o)
Hello from BSU! I feel you, girl. I get that way (probably a lot more often than I should!)and find that taking time out for *Me* helps. Even if its just a few minutes. Being a wife and mom can be a tough job! Ask your hubby to take the baby long enough for a bubble bath and pedi... self indulgance is the perfect uplift sometimes!
I know, lately all I want to do on my blog is bitch. ALOT.
let's see...Hmm...Your hubs is a certified hottie, your kid is adorable, and you're cute as hell and have better hair than me.
That's something!
this is my first visit to your blog... from what I have read, you're doing fine.
I'll be back to read you again soon.
~AirmanMom returning to her blog...
You are damn funny!
You know how to run a computer. You know how to type. You are funny. You have ambition. You live in a world where you can be a woman and not get flogged (because with your potty mouth, my dear, you'd be whipped on the street in other countries... hugs) You're beautiful, you own property, you have a great heart, you learn from your mistakes, your daughter is a fighter, your husband is a lover, you don't take peoples' crap and you're willing to look within to change and grow.
Done.
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